MY THEORY OF SEXUAL ATTRACTION.
Before I start off, if the word or topic of sex seems taboo to you, then this blog is not meant for you and feel free to escape the page.
Well, sex has been called an art, it is also called love making but if we over look what we call it and focus on the nature of it or how it actually makes us feel then we may be able to understand the natural philosophy of it. This is just a theory that I came up with so it's totally fine if your take on it differs.
We've all heard of the famous and at the same time the infamous book, Kama Sutra by Vatsayayana. It talks about various techniques and positions that can lead to attaining the most amount of sexual pleasure but what we really miss out on is that it helps us build up that passion that is needed for one's sexual fulfilment. Sex is drived by passion which originates from chemistry between the two. Sexual attractions see no love. Ever wondered why your mind thinks of it to be so interesting to have sex with a new partner? Well, though the sex drive can be justified by your reptilian insticts but the growing interest when it's someone new that you feel attracted towards has its own mysteries. Now, by someone new it doesn't mean any or everybody, it is only that person that your mind chooses for you.
Though we might be searching for common interests or common grounds to indulge with a person, when it comes to sex, it is actually the uncommon grounds between the two that plays it's part. Because chemistry is formed by those unshared interests, that part of the relationship or the conversation between the two that is a mystery. The sexual drive gets stronger with the growing urge of knowing the other person and the easiest way our brain can sort for is sex because another way would take time. As I've stated in my previous blogs, our brain functions to move towards pleasure and away from pain and being patient here can to a certain extent be the same as enduring a little bit of pain. So, with our urge to know the person a little bit more, we feel at ease momentarily by seeing just beneath his/her covers of clothes and by touching the person a little bit more. We just feel closer than before.
Well, people close to me really know how I talk bout how I believe in "seduction of the soul", just a phrase I use alot because once the soul is seduced you know way more than what sex would teach you about the person and it's way more pleasurable I feel.
This is just my theory of it.
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